Free Advice Nation: India's Culture of Unsolicited Wisdom
Mayank Singhal
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🎙️ Your barber isn't just cutting your hair.
He's fixing your love life, career, and cholesterol levels.
In India, every service comes with life gyaan, No extra charge.
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🫖 Uncle at the tea stall?
Career counselor.
Auto driver?
Stock market analyst.
Local chemist?
Marriage therapist with free paracetamol.
This isn't randomness. It's a social system.
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🤔 Why so much advice?
Because here, privacy is optional, but care is mandatory.
People give advice because they feel responsible for you.
Even if you're just buying shampoo.
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📚 India's education isn't just textbooks.
It's oral wisdom, passed over cutting chai and paan shops.
Stories, lectures, and thoda unsolicited opinion, that's how we learn.
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🤝 We confuse advice with connection.
In small towns, advice is currency.
A way to say:
"I see you."
"I've been there."
"Let me help, even if you didn't ask."
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⚖️ But not all advice is equal.
The system has biases.
Older > younger.
Men > women.
Louder > quieter.
Unasked guidance can quickly become unearned authority.
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🌟 Still, it fills a gap.
In a country where formal mentorship is rare, informal consultants step in.
Sometimes annoying.
Sometimes useful.
But always - always - present.
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🔍 We don't Google "How to fix this."
We ask our barber, our chemist, our cabbie.
And somewhere between the chai and the traffic,
a real insight does land.
That's India's "advice economy."
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💫 It's not CRM.
It's not LinkedIn.
It's real human bandwidth, running on nosiness, experience, and emotional impulse.
Chaotic. Kind. Unfiltered.
That's our default mode.